Inspiration: Antiquities, Accents, and Together Alone

This is my Discovering Her Delight inspiration post. Warning! There are spoilers ahead for the book. If you don’t mind spoilers, read on. If you don’t like your romance spoiled, read Discovering Her Delight first!

An Initial Inspiration

I started the notes for Discovering Her Delight way back in 2014 (then known as Discovering Her Desire). I knew it was going to be a story centered on an archaeological expedition, I just wasn’t clear on the specifics. An archaeologist friend of mine had a bizarre idea: what if the hero had to write on the heroine’s back?

So I held on to that thought, and it continued to inspire the story. Why would he need to do this? Under what circumstances? And how would he do it in 1881?

When I finally wrote the first draft as my 2017 NaNoWriMo project, I had all the reasons why, and, thanks to the NaNoWriMo discussion forums, I had some idea of the how. You’ll have to read the book to find out.

Antiquities

As I worked on the book, the obvious plot device was a fake antiquities ring. Well, I have some personal experience with that, believe it or not. My father used to subscribe to the catalog for the Sadigh Gallery in New York. Most years at Christmas, he would give me and my siblings gifts of some antique object and not tell us where he got it. When we would visit him, we would notice some new object from antiquity prominently displayed, and he would be vague about how he acquired it. I recall one gift of an “Egyptian” necklace and feeling rather uncomfortable about it. If it was real, it was illegal under international law. Then came the year I received the “Ancient Greek” kylix for Christmas.

I knew immediately it was fake.

By that time, I had finished my masters in art history (my emphasis was late Roman art). I knew objects such as the kylix would not be: a) intact and unchipped; b) if they were intact and unchipped, would be otherwise pristine, e.g. would not have uncleanable dirt and encrustations because the antiquities dealer would have cleaned all of that off to get a better price. The kylix was, simply, too perfect and too dirty.
Fake Greek kylix sold by New York fake antiquities dealer Sadigh Gallery

Then, as I was going through my father’s effects while he was dying, I came across all of the Sadigh Gallery receipts, which prompted me to look them up. It just happened to be at the same time the gallery had been accused of selling fakes.

The sad reality became fodder for the villain’s story in Discovering Her Delight.

Accents

It has been enough time to have had a few reviews on the book, and so far no one has mentioned the character in the book who has a unique skill with accents. While some might find this an unlikely skill, it is indeed based on my own experience.

When on a family tour of Italy, I could tell our British tour guide spoke Italian with a British accent. He told me the Italians found his accent as sexy as the Americans find British accents sexy. I laughed.

At a party at the apartment of a Turkish friend, I told him I could tell he spoke Turkish with a Los Angeles accent. He agreed in surprise.

I only offer these experiences as evidence in case someone wonders if ascertaining a speaker’s origin from the way they speak a foreign language is possible. It is.

Theme songs

So, our theme song for Discovering Her Delight is absolutely, positively “I Think We’re Alone Now”. But which version?

I am torn by all of the choices of versions of our theme song!

[Disclaimer: I have no control over whatever commercials/adverts Youtube chooses to show you when you watch these embedded videos. Whatever the ads are, I probably do not support the product or message.]

The original by Tommy James & The Shondells from 1967?

The remake by Tiffany from 1987 (twenty years later)?

The COVID lockdown version made by Billie Joe Armstrong with his sons?
(Okay, I think Billie Joe’s version is my favorite, although I do miss the vocal harmonies of the other versions.)

Misterotica, however, has a different take on what the theme song should be. Because William has an “unruly cock” that he has to keep bound under his trousers, my husband thought of a lesser-known song about young male virility: Jizz In My Pants by The Lonely Island. [Totally “Not Safe For Work” video!]

And in Discovering Her Delight, yes, William does, um, “jizz” in a few unusual places, one of which is not next to a kylix, but a larger vessel from antiquity.

Happy reading!

NaNoPrep2023: The Rebellion Begins

I have participated in National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo) since 2006. So this November, 2023, will be my 18th NaNoWriMo.

Holy Wow. That’s a lot of novels.

No, really, it is. I have nine (yes, 9) unfinished novels. And they are really good novels. Eight are related to existing series. (The standalone is 2021’s Super Sekrit Steampunk novel.)

So I came to the conclusion that I really, really, REALLY need to finish these novels. And I really, really need to spend my NaNoWriMo November writing time to achieve this goal rather than starting more new novels. Continue reading

Sex and the Seasoned Romance

In 2018, I was on a Seasoned Romance panel at the Emerald City Writers Conference. My topic was “Sex and the Seasoned Romance”. I was recently reminded of this presentation when another author posted a rather shocking comment in a seasoned romance author discussion group I am no longer a member of:

“I would not write an erotic romance about an older couple…simply because there’s a level of maturity that makes their sexual relationship much deeper and more meaningful, because of all they’ve been through.”

Uh…that’s exactly why an author can write a seasoned erotic romance! Or even just sex scenes featuring seasoned characters.

I’m still trying to get my head around what this author might have meant. Does she think “erotic romance” means lots of vacuous, meaningless sex? Because that’s not what an erotic romance is at all. In fact, the “maturity that makes their sexual relationship much deeper and more meaningful” feeds into what an erotic romance is: a sexual journey leading to a happily-ever-after. Continue reading

NaNoPrep2022: Steampunk Rebel!

This year has been a difficult one. My mother died unexpectedly. My father continues to live under hospice care. So I’m taking it easy with my 2022 National Novel Writing Month November effort. Which means I’m going to, yet again, be a NaNo Rebel.

What’s a NaNoWriMo Rebel you might ask? Someone who bucks the NaNoWriMo tradition of writing 50,000 words of a brand new novel during November. The team over at National Novel Writing Month has FAQs in their discussion forum. Continue reading

NaNoPrep2021: Sooper Sekrit Steampunk Romance

It’s October and once again time for NaNoPrep. “Preptober” is the time when authors all over the world prepare their National Novel Writing Month novel. This year my novel is called The Sooper Sekrit Steampunk Story. Yes, it will be Steampunk! Yes, there will be romance! But, I only have sort of an idea of what’s going to happen! Continue reading

Getting to know me: Betty Bolte’s Musings 2020

This re-post of an interview I did with romance author Betty Bolte is the fourth in a series of blog interviews I’ve done over the years. The first post explains my purpose.

Betty Bolte’s Interview

Today’s post is from a 2020 interview I did for Betty Bolte’s blog to promote Resistance. Betty is one of the authors who participated in the Common Elements Romance Project, and she generously offered space on her popular blog for her colleagues. Continue reading

Heat levels vs. erotic romance (and erotica)

In one of my writers’ groups the subject of heat levels in romance came up, and how to describe romance novel sexy times (or lack thereof) on some sort of scale.

You probably think this is an easy discussion, right? Ha!

There is literally no industry standard for heat levels, and yet romance readers constantly want to know what to expect sexiness-wise between the covers.

Having no industry standard means everyone has their own opinion including one particular retailer which randomly puts romance books into their “Erotica Dungeon” even if said romance book is not erotica (plus erotica is not a heat level — more on that below). Continue reading

Getting to know me: Gemma Snow’s Interview 2017

This re-post of an interview I did with erotic romance author Gemma Snow is the third in a series of blog interviews I’ve done over the years. The first post explains my purpose.

Gemma Snow’s Interview

Today’s post is from a 2017 interview I did for Gemma Snow’s blog to promote The Westerman Affair when it was originally published by Loose Id. I met Gemma Snow virtually as a fellow Loose Id author. Loose Id is a now-defunct publisher, and both Gemma and I have republished our books.

The Interview

I got to sit down with Regina Kammer to talk writing, inspiration and her new book, The Westerman Affair! Continue reading

NaNoPrep2020: Pantsing Adam and Lydia’s story

Welp, it’s October 2020 and time for NaNoPrep2020, otherwise known as Preptober. Also, it’s the absolute end of October and I really just started prepping my NaNoWriMo novel this week. Ugh, sigh.

But, I have a premise, I have the fake NaNo cover, and I think farming is over for right now. (Okay, well, farming never ends, but it sometimes takes a seasonal break. By the way, did you know I was a gentlefolk farmer?)

This year I’m totally pantsing it. I have a vague premise of a story involving Lydia and Adam from The Vicereine, the sex club in my Art & Discipline series. The title is tentatively A Model Alliance.

Who are Lydia and Adam, you might ask?
Continue reading

Getting to know me: Cameron Allie’s Author Spotlight 2016

This is the second in a series of posts re-posting blog interviews I’ve done over the years. The first post explains my purpose.

Cameron Allie’s Author Spotlight

Today’s post is from a 2016 interview I did to promote my novella Undamaged way back when it was part of Paige Tyler’s Dallas Fire & Rescue Kindle World (I have since re-released it). I met Cameron virtually in the Romance Writers of America (RWA) erotic romance chapter Passionate Ink. She graciously offered to host me on her blog. Continue reading